How can we share what we’ve learned, help each other out, provide guides and create tutorials, if those we’re helping could figure it out themselves?
One way could be to show and leave.
By saying, “It looks like this,” instead of, “it’s done exactly like this. If you don’t do it exactly like this, you aren’t doing it right.”
Show them what it could look like, then leave them to the hundreds of hours of refining their mechanics until their mechanics become natural.