Communication and outcomes: figure out what you want, then go get it

https://youtu.be/4gvSE_Q5LiI I often say that I want to get better at communication. What do I mean by this, by communication? Do I mean only written and spoken words? Images in graphic designs? Yeah, those things make up communication. But, when I talk about communication, I'm talking about being conscious of outcomes. Carl Jung pointed out … Continue reading Communication and outcomes: figure out what you want, then go get it

This might sound stupid, but

it's not. Let yourself say the stupid thing. As long as you're not being offensive for the sake of being offensive, you're fine. I flinch when I hear myself editing my words out loud. This happens either before or after I speak. Sometimes both. "This might sound stupid, but..." or, "that sounded so..." But when … Continue reading This might sound stupid, but